affairs can really tear lives apart. i have a good friend whose life has just been shattered b/c of it. my mom also had an affair before she married my dad and later told him while she was on her death bed. i still am rather upset with her for this, but life goes on. i don't know. maybe that's why i'm afraid of falling in love and getting married. b/c of unfaithfulness and human errors. what do you think?